Dispelling the Fear of Support Extenders and Strap-Ons

Summary:

Certain men’s health sexual support devices have many myths and mistruths that are well known in our society. What society is not as familiar with, are these amazing devices and their ability to help a man reclaim the intimacy and sexual function he desires and needs to wholly heal. Support extenders and strap-on devices are extremely helpful and empowering to those suffering from erectile and sexual dysfunction. Educating yourself about these devices may be the very thing that helps you to reclaim your body, overcome your medical struggle, and persevere to get the intimacy we all need. Our Reclaiming Intimacy therapeutic product lines have everything you need to get started!

Detail:

Penis extenders and strap-on devices have a generally frowned upon and negative view in our society. Many people attribute hearing about these things when discussing kinky or bondage related sexual activities. And sure, those points are true, and these devices are used in those scenarios and situations, but there are many other circumstances and conditions that these, and many other penile support devices, help with in relation to erectile and sexual dysfunction. Until this is a needed device for your own intimate and sexual needs, one may never fully understand or appreciate the value these simple devices hold.

While sex toys are not designed to cure or solely for erectile and sexual dysfunction, some of them offer a path back to intimacy and pleasure incomparable to any other treatment on the market. The best part is that these devices do not have the side effects or major recovery times that the prescription medication or surgical routes would have, and sometimes have even better results. This is why more specialists are recommending their patients try these simple products before doing more invasive treatments.

The Myths of Penile Support Devices

The many myths about strap-ons and penis supportive devices have grown a steady fear of the unknown and unusual. However, many of those very myths are just that- false information made up by people who would rather be ignorant than educated. Here are some of the top myths about these devices:

  • “Strap-Ons are only used by females for lesbian sex.” False! Sure, women do use these devices as well, but the truth is they are made for anyone and everyone, with a variety of options, colors, sizes, and styles. Strap-ons are very versatile and popular because of this. These devices serve a very important purpose for those males who have issues with getting or maintaining an erection.For example, the hollow strap-on is designed to aide males when they cannot achieve an erection. The Reclaiming Intimacy Extend is a strap-on where the penis can be inserted, completely flaccid, into the hollowed area with lubrication and any sexual act can then be formed. This can be a detrimental life changer for the man who has lost all ability and craves to be with his partner.
  • “Any man who uses a strap-on must be homosexual.” Wrong! There are no rules or rule books when it comes to strap-on devices. This means any human of any color, creed or origin can use and benefit from them at any time. The human body is made to have certain pleasure receptors scattered around our bodies, including our anal area in both males and females. Many people use strap-ons to provide a hint of roleplay into their sexual routines as well.Also, for those who do use a strap-on device for anal play because of a medical condition that does not allow them to have or obtain pleasure in a “normal” way, consider the Reclaiming Intimacy Intensify kit, which is designed for anal pleasure and play. This kit includes four different devices designed to bring different sensations and stimulation to the prostate or anal area of the body. While this may be a different sensation and pleasure zone then you are used to, many people turn to anal pleasure when their “normal” method of pleasure and intimacy has been altered.
  • “Strap-ons are only used for vaginal penetration.” Not true. Anal play is a growing trend for all varieties of couples engaging in sexual activity. In the world of bondage and sadism, strap-ons have been known to penetrate any orifice or body part available. Just because something might not seem normal or appropriate to you does not mean it is not completely normal to someone else.
  • “Men only use strap-ons when they cannot perform or ejaculate early.” Yes and no. There are many men who wear and use strap-ons for a multitude of reasons. Some for extreme sexual play, some because their partners are into role play, and others just because the material feels differently and turns them on. Men who suffer from erectile and sexual dysfunction also regularly use strap-ons to combat their issues to reclaim the intimacy and sexual side of themselves they have lost.
  • “Support extenders just hide a small penis.” Wrong! Support extenders, girth enhancers, and some support rings are not made to hide a small penis. These provide a wide variety of support for a man’s penis and give couples a different feeling during sexual intercourse. Some extenders are made to help support the shaft of the penis, thusly helping to hold semi-erect penises upright for sexual activity.Other girth enhancers can be worn by any man temporarily increasing the width of the penis. This can be beneficial for partners who have low-sensation, which allows them to feel fuller during intercourse. Support rings are also there to provide a prolonged erection by helping to hold the blood in the shaft. The use of these devices has no connection to the size of the male’s penis.Support rings like the Reclaiming Intimacy Enhance set or the Reclaiming Intimacy’s Retain set are designed to help to keep an erection for a longer period of time, helping to trap the blood in the hardened shaft by rolling the ring on, with lubrication, over the head, and down the shaft to the base of the penis.

The Most Common Questions about Penile Support Devices

In most cases, males going through various types of cancer and illness that steals their intimacy and sexual selves have the same questions but are too embarrassed or timid to ask. Never be afraid to ask questions about topics that concern your overall health and happiness.

“I have decreased sensation in my penis. What can I do to help feel again?”

If you are experiencing decreased sensation in your penis or testicles, consider trying a basic vibrator with multiple functions and speeds. A bullet style vibe or a longer-handled version for grip and ease of use could benefit your situation in a multitude of ways. Vibration has a way of relaxing and calming sore and tense muscles, and awakening nerves and tissue that has been damaged or compromised. The vibrations allow the body to feel different sensations than those typically thought of during self-discovering masturbation or intimate time with your partner.

“I am completely unable to get an erection. Will I ever be able to have sex with my partner again?”

While your medical condition might prevent you from finding pleasure or having intercourse in the “standard” way, there are a multitude of other ways to find pleasure and connect with your partner. This is a primary case where a hollow strap-on would be extremely helpful. Not only does this device allow you to engage in intercourse with your partner, it also allows for feeling and sensations to nudge those tired nerves, which could possibly help you to regain feeling and partial function over time. Strap-ons are made to be worn on your body in a special harness, which keeps the device in place. Extenders are flexible but fit snugly to ensure full support. You should check in to the Reclaiming Intimacy Extend strap-on or the Reclaiming Intimacy Empower erection enhancer devices.

“Since my treatment, I have been dealing with a semi-erect penis and premature ejaculation.”

Semi-erect penises may benefit from either the support extender or the hollow strap-on device. There are many ways to help ease premature ejaculation. The easiest way to work on this issue is to practice with yourself to help increase your stamina and sensation sensitivity. Masturbator sleeves and simple masturbation can help with this. These devices mimic the motions that the body makes during oral, vaginal, or anal intercourse.

One of the best masturbator sleeves on the market is the Reclaiming Intimacy’s Titan. This device can bring a completely flaccid penis to orgasm! By snugly sucking the penis into the hand-controlled vacuum-like sleeve, you can control the motion and friction control by simply pumping your hand on the outside of the tube. This was designed to work with men who suffer from all levels of erectile dysfunction, although any man- with or without an erection issue, can benefit from this amazing masturbator. For a man struggling to regain feeling and sensation, this can be very beneficial in your path to reclaiming your self during self-discovery times.

“My doctor told me I have an enlarged prostate. Is there anything I can do to shrink it?”

Erectile dysfunction can be caused by an enlarged prostate or other medical issues. The prostate usually swells and enlarges when a backup of semen is trapped, and the bacteria begins to grow from the stagnant liquid. This is called prostatitis. An enlarged prostate can cause erection problems and issues with urination and incontinence. These can disrupt sleep, sexual function and the entirety of one’s life. A prostate massager is a stimulator especially made to reach a male’s prostate. The prostate is comparable to the woman’s G-spot, in that pressure and stimulation to the area can trigger pleasure and intense orgasm. The prostate is located just below the bladder at the base of the penis and is the size of a walnut.

Massaging the prostate can bring on powerful, long-lasting feelings of pleasure and the desire to have an intense orgasm and ejaculation. This is a benefit to the body because this helps to flush out the stagnant semen that has built up or become trapped inside of the prostate. Having regular orgasms with ejaculation is healthy and keeps the entire male reproductive system working. Using a prostate massaging device, or simply using your gloved finger in the rectum, facing upwards towards the stomach, can help to stimulate and relieve the prostate. Prostate massagers can be used alone or with your partner.

There are many varieties of prostate massagers available. Some have no function and others have many functions with optional vibration. The style you choose will have much to do with your likes and dislikes for different sensations and materials. If you are struggling to select a prostate massager, reach out to your local sexual wellness experts or schedule a time to discuss what might be best with your doctor.

“What are the best types of sexual aides I could try anally, as I have lost feeling in my penis for sexual activity.”

On top of trying the hollow strap-on, support extender, and prostate massagers, there are also anal vibrators, anal beads, and anal plugs. Anal beads are designed in a flexible line, with linked “beads” connected to a loop for holding. These are inserted, as many or as few as you can handle, and removed and manipulated slowly, which increases the orgasm.

Anal plugs are designed to be used while another sexual act is occurring. Many will insert an anal plug, always using lubrication, and leave it in while they masturbate or have intercourse. Some also use these plugs to help ready the rear end for future anal play and anal sex. Anal plugs also help to increase sensation and orgasm ability.

Anal vibrators are designed to stimulate specific areas with a variety of nerve-stimulating functions and vibrations. Some may have different vibration speeds, while others have a dozen functions of different vibrations and pulsations working together to bring different sensation to whichever area you place it. Remember to always use lubrication before inserting anything into the rectum.

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